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What Works and What Often Does Not…

Internet Dating vs Bespoke

You may have tried online or internet dating; and yes people do occasionally find life partners via that method. But in general it’s a hit and miss process.  Often pictures are years out of date or not an accurate portrayal of the person and the profiles can be less than genuine.  We have all been there! Unfortunately by its very nature, internet dating does attract a large amount of ‘players’ , ‘bunny boilers’, ‘gold diggers’ and general undesirables – people who perhaps aren’t quite as serious as you are about finding a life partner or maybe you found the calibre of matches was lacking? Browsing 1000’s of profiles can be laborious and time consuming, emailing back and forth (some compare it to another full time occupation!) to find after all that, the person isn’t who you thought or hoped at all.

Bar Hopping

You have also probably spent a fair amount of time socialising in London, perhaps hoping to bump into that special someone?  It has been suggested that the chance of you finding a partner on a night out in London is 0.0000034%.  That shocked us too.

Try This

So what can you expect with us?  With our service, you can relax, save your energy and time and enjoy meeting like-minded new people and having a great experience. We like to find out about you and the sort of person you are looking for during a one-to-one meeting with one of our professionally trained Consultants.  Rather than just gather information such as age, height, interests and hobbies, we focus on 5 core areas to help build a proper insight into what makes you tick and what attributes your perfect partner will need to compliment yours. We find your matches using our extensive, active portfolio But… also through headhunting and networking. This was previously only available to the very wealthy.  If you are familiar with the six degrees of separation theory then you will be as excited as we are about the potential there. We are totally pro-active in finding you the perfect partner. As well as our members, sometimes we will interview and screen 5 or 6 people before we will recommend just one match for you.  So you can be totally secure in the knowledge that everyone you meet has been met and vetted by us. We will never waste your time by introducing you to people you do not want to meet. So in brief, you can expect:

  • Guaranteed introductions
  • A Triple Guarantee Promise – minimum introductions, quality matches, match any other guarantee
  • Personal profiling
  • Personal matchmaking
  • Executive search
  • Personal date reviews
  • Hold facility for up to 3 months
  • A response to any email or phone call within 24 hours
  • Invitations to exclusive private dinner and cocktail parties
  • Best value membership from any bespoke agency in London

Members Area?

We do not have a member’s area –  somewhere for you to peruse profiles online – that is far too much like online dating in its impersonal, indiscreet and random approach and is something that we definitely tend to avoid. Who has the time?? That would be a lazy approach for us to pick-a-partner; We want and will do better for you. Oh and you never need to come to see us to choose dates by flicking through a folder – we of course choose your dates carefully and selectively.

Personal Touch

So, we personally select who we feel would make a great match for you based on those 5 core areas; and if you agree, we will  exchange contact details for you to get together to see if that chemistry is bubbling away.  We like to know how the date went to add to our knowledge of what works (or doesn’t) for you so that those introductions just keep getting better and better. Our biggest joy is when you say, he or she was just great, you had the best time in years, the chemistry was amazing and you go on to get married, live together or whatever you like, as long as you are happy, then we are happy.


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Latest Feedback

Below is just a tiny example of the daily feedback we receive from our clients. More testimonials, should you need them can be found on the testimonials page.
"We had a lovely evening and ended up completely forgetting the time, always a good sign.  Thank you very much for putting us in touch, I shall keep you updated..."
"...She is an amazing lady, I think she also feels that spark. We are going on our second date on Friday..."  "Tina, a quick update, this will be our 6th date. I know I would not have met a a woman like this online or randomly, so thank you"
"Just thought you might like to know that ***** and I have had six dates of all different kinds and we are now planning to spend this Valentine's weekend together. :) He has also invited me to his ski chalet in ****** and would like to take me to meet his parents. I shall let you know...but he has been most thoughtful, caring and keen to connect and I have been enjoying a wonderful time with him".   
"...I am thrilled to be able to tell you that Simon and I have become engaged and plan to marry in the Summer of next year. There is no way we would have met without you guys at Elan, so a huge thank you and keep up the good work!"
Simon & Laure

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