Single at Christmas?

London Matchmaking AgencyFirst of all, and this may seem a little bit radical… you don’t have to be in a relationship just for the sake of it – at Christmas or any time. If you are happy being single, that’s great but you probably wouldn’t be reading this anyway.

So if you are single this Christmas, that too is not a disaster. Here in London the run up to Christmas is super-hectic. Parties, work events, deadlines, travel planning. Who actually has time to think about going into a relationship at this time?

It’s only really during the holidays that we have time to sit back and reflect and think about what’s missing. We all know we only have one life (unless you know something we don’t) and we all try to live it to the max. But if our lives are unbalanced and we are being who we envisaged, if what we think is our ‘blueprint’ for life is not measuring up,  then we will start to get unhappy.

We meet many clients who are super successful and who have worked hard to achieve what they have. Some of them want to move on to have a fulfilling relationship and build a family, some have a family and would like to meet that one person who makes then feel at home, always. Human beings have an innate need to be loved and to love. This can obviously be expressed in many ways, but usually it is expressed through a loving partnership.

If you are busy working, travelling and partying during this Christmas season, have a wonderful time!  If you then take some time to reflect on what you wish for 2015, and one of those wishes is to find your soul mate, then please give us a call or send us an email.  December is a time where we really gear up to make your January extremely exciting.

Have the most wonderful Christmas ever and a very Happy and Peaceful New Year to you. We very much look forward to helping to make your wishes come true in 2015!

We would be very happy to hear from you either before Christmas or after.

Contact us

By phone: 0207 630 6015

or Email: enquiries@elanlondon.co.uk

We will be closed for the Christmas period – 22 December until 5th January.


Procrastination in Love

Definition: The action of delaying or postponing something. (English Oxford Dictionary) ukmatchmaker

Living in London and having a demanding career plus a busy and hectic social life means that we often (much more than often) put off important things in our lives.

Going home to visit parents, catching up with university friends… meeting our life partner. We put them off.

We file them in a hidden cupboard in our minds marked ‘later’.

But then, suddenly maybe something happens or we just realise one day that there is something missing from our lives; a missing part from the whole picture and maybe we think, “Hey, I would really like to make an effort to have that one special person in my life, this is very, very important to me actually”.

You may be male you may be female. In our experience, it happens to both. You also may have tried online dating and find that time consuming, soul destroying and pointless. But, here are some other options though:

  • Get out and about. Say YES to the invitations to dinner parties, to art gallery receptions, say yes to all invitations (within reason, of course) – you really never know who you may meet…
  • Utilise your friends.  Who do they know who would be perfect for you?  Tell them you are open to introductions.
  • Maybe you would like some relationship advice?  That is not saying you need it but maybe, just maybe a past partner has put you back in terms of moving on? We provide that for our clients gratis. If you are not a client we can refer you. We do not get a referral fee.
  • Join a reputable agency to help you? Of course we are going to say that is us, but we encourage people to check out more than a few. Go with who with who you feel comfortable with. Ask tons of questions. We can give you a tick list of questions to ask.

Really though, it is very simple:  you are either ready to find a long term relationship or you are not.

The question you need to ask yourself is – Am I ready? and what do I need to do to meet my soul mate?

If you are really ready and would like us to help you in an efficient, intelligent and thoughtful way then please do get in touch, we would love to meet you…

BOOK: you can book a complimentary consultation  HERE 

PHONE: us now on 0207 6306015

EMAIL: at enquiries@elanlondon.co.uk